Depression

Merry Christmas ๐ŸŽ„

Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

This is the first year apart from my ex, I miss her very much. It just doesnโ€™t feel the same.

I have my two beautiful children who have been excited this morning opening presents but I still feel incredibly lonely & heartbroken. I can’t shake off the overwhelming feeling of sadness.

It’s Christmas Day but unfortunately you can’t schedule happiness.

To anyone else feeling alone, depressed or finding today difficult, I’m sending virtual hugs to you all.

Below are some ways you can help yourself over this festive period โ€ฆ.

  • Aim to do at least one thing you enjoy each day or try a new activity maybe drawing, painting, writing or maybe try s new sport or hobby.
  • Christmas can disturb your regular routines, try to plan your days to include some of your regular daily activities.
  • Look after yourself: Watch alcohol consumption, try and eat healthy food, get enough sleep, sunlight and exercise. Need inspiration? Heres 101 self care ideas to help you take care of yourself.
  • Be kind to yourself โ€“ Itโ€™s OK to have sad, angry or disappointed feelings about Christmas and what it brings up for you.
  • Done allow catastrophic thinking to take over : Just because itโ€™s like this now, doesnโ€™t mean it always has to be; What are you in control of? What could be different? What resources do you have?
  • Be aware of your triggers: Think about what may feel difficult for you from past experiences and plan ways to manage your response.

Mental health helplines

Whether youโ€™re concerned about yourself or a loved one, these helplines and support groups can offer expert advice.

Anxiety UK

Charity providing support if youโ€™ve been diagnosed with an anxiety condition.

Phone: 03444 775 774 (Mon to Fri, 9.30am to 5.30pm)

Website: www.anxietyuk.org.uk

Bipolar UK

A charity helping people living with manic depression or bipolar disorder.

Website: http://www.bipolaruk.org.uk

CALM

CALM is the Campaign Against Living Miserably, for men aged 15 to 35.

Phone: 0800 58 58 58 (daily, 5pm to midnight)

Website: http://www.thecalmzone.net

Menโ€™s Health Forum

24/7 stress support for men by text, chat and email.

Website: http://www.menshealthforum.org.uk

Mental Health Foundation

Provides information and support for anyone with mental health problems or learning disabilities.

Website: http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk

Mind

Promotes the views and needs of people with mental health problems.

Phone: 0300 123 3393 (Mon to Fri, 9am to 6pm)

Website: http://www.mind.org.uk

No Panic

Voluntary charity offering support for sufferers of panic attacks and obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). Offers a course to help overcome your phobia/OCD. Includes a helpline.

Phone: 0844 967 4848 (daily, 10am to 10pm)

Website: http://www.nopanic.org.uk

OCD Action

Support for people with OCD. Includes information on treatment and online resources.

Phone: 0845 390 6232 (Mon to Fri, 9.30am to 5pm)

Website: http://www.ocdaction.org.uk

OCD UK

A charity run by people with OCD, for people with OCD. Includes facts, news and treatments.

Phone: 0845 120 3778 (Mon to Fri, 9am to 5pm)

Website: http://www.ocduk.org

PAPYRUS

Young suicide prevention society.

Phone: HOPElineUK 0800 068 4141 (Mon to Fri,10am to 5pm & 7 to 10pm. Weekends 2 to 5pm)

Website: http://www.papyrus-uk.org

Rethink Mental Illness

Support and advice for people living with mental illness.

Phone: 0300 5000 927 (Mon to Fri, 9.30am to 4pm)

Website: http://www.rethink.org

Samaritans

Confidential support for people experiencing feelings of distress or despair.

Phone: 116 123 (free 24-hour helpline)

Website: http://www.samaritans.org.uk

SANE

Emotional support, information and guidance for people affected by mental illness, their families and carers.

SANEline: 0300 304 7000 (daily, 4.30 to 10.30pm)

Textcare: comfort and care via text message, sent when the person needs it most: http://www.sane.org.uk/textcare

Peer support forum: http://www.sane.org.uk/supportforum

Website: http://www.sane.org.uk/support

YoungMinds

Information on child and adolescent mental health. Services for parents and professionals.

Phone: Parentsโ€™ helpline 0808 802 5544 (Mon to Fri, 9.30am to 4pm)

Website: www.youngminds.org.uk

Abuse (child, sexual, domestic violence)

NSPCC

Childrenโ€™s charity dedicated to ending child abuse and child cruelty.

Phone: 0800 1111 for Childline for children (24-hour helpline)

0808 800 5000 for adults concerned about a child (24-hour helpline)

Website: http://www.nspcc.org.uk

Refuge

Advice on dealing with domestic violence.

Phone: 0808 2000 247 (24-hour helpline)

Website: http://www.refuge.org.uk

Addiction (drugs, alcohol, gambling)

Alcoholics Anonymous

Phone: 0845 769 7555 (24-hour helpline)

Website: http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk

Gamblers Anonymous

Website: http://www.gamblersanonymous.org.uk

Narcotics Anonymous

Phone: 0300 999 1212 (daily 10am to midnight)

Website: http://www.ukna.org

Alzheimerโ€™s

Alzheimerโ€™s Society

Provides information on dementia, including factsheets and helplines.

Phone: 0300 222 1122 (Mon to Fri, 9am to 5pm. Weekends, 10am to 4pm)

Website: http://www.alzheimers.org.uk

Bereavement

Cruse Bereavement Care

Phone: 0844 477 9400 (Mon to Fri, 9am to 5pm)

Website: http://www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk

Crime victims

Rape Crisis

To find your local services phone: 0808 802 9999 (daily, 12 to 2.30pm, 7 to 9.30pm)

Website: www.rapecrisis.org.uk

Victim Support

Phone: 0808 168 9111 (24-hour helpline)

Website: http://www.victimsupport.org

Eating disorders

Beat

Phone: 0808 801 0677 (adults) or 0808 801 0711 (for under-18s)

Website: http://www.b-eat.co.uk

Learning disabilities

Mencap

Charity working with people with a learning disability, their families and carers.

Phone: 0808 808 1111 (Mon to Fri, 9am to 5pm)

Website: www.mencap.org.uk

Parenting

Family Lives

Advice on all aspects of parenting including dealing with bullying.

Phone: 0808 800 2222 (Mon to Fri, 9am to 9pm. Sat to Sun, 10am to 3pm)

Website: www.familylives.org.uk

Relationships

Relate

The UKโ€™s largest provider of relationship support.

Website: http://www.relate.org.uk

23 thoughts on “Merry Christmas ๐ŸŽ„

  1. Sorry to hear.. But nevertheless, I still hope you had a good Christmas. Holidays can be the hardest especially if you have been celebrating with your partner and when they leave, the holidays feel a bit empty. Take that time to celebrate who you are without them. I just broke up recently and it’s the holiday season plus birthday coming up.. I know how you feel! ๐Ÿ˜ขSending you virtual hugs! ๐Ÿ’•

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  2. I Miss my Dad and Grandparents. Sorry to hear you are going through Heartbreak it can be even more lonely and difficult this time of year.
    ((((BIG HUGS))) All you can do is take it one day at a time, I am no stranger to heartbreak though not as recent. The man I loved betrayed me.

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  3. Reblogged this on Notes and commented:
    Not many are able to make their saddest moments of their lives (i.e. Sarah’s first Christmas without her love) with having the strength and ability to provide very useful resources for anyone feeling alone or helpless.

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  4. Sending you big hugs and lots of love. This time can be difficult and I pray you take it a moment at a time. May gratitude and comfort overflow for you. Merry Christmas and thanks for encouraging others even as youโ€™re feeling sadness.

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  5. Merry Christmas Heather, a few years ago I split up with my girlfriend she was the love of my life. Oh how I missed her especially at Christmas. Then I realised it was the best thing that could have happened. The path your on now is the way to better things. Take care and please keep writing.

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